Can I Be a Lesbian and Date a Transman?

I’m a sex therapist in private practice. I’m asked all sorts of interesting questions on a regular basis. The following touched on sensitive and important issues deserving of being shared with others. Here’s the question. Do you agree with my … Read More

May 20, 2015
Low Self Confidence? Here’s Help

Do you suspect that if only you had more self-confidence, you’d be able to make your life work better? Chances are you’re right! The primary tools for effecting change are believing in 1) our ability to make it happen and … Read More

September 12, 2014
Disappointing Sex. What happened?

  Dear Dr Ren and Bloom, As a woman of a certain age, I learned to follow the rules. That included marrying a man I liked immensely, and burying my sexual attraction to women. My husband died three years ago, … Read More

April 30, 2014
First Time Lesbian Sex

Dear Dr Ren and Bloom, I’ve always dated men, and happily so. I like sex with men. But recently I watched some lesbian porn that really turned me on. I would like to find out what sex with another woman … Read More

April 30, 2014
Sex Changes with Aging

Dear Dr Ren/Bloom, I’ve been married over three decadues, and over those years my husband and I have developed a fulfilling sexual relationship. Ironically, now that we’ve gotten really good at this, age is throwing us some curves. My husband … Read More

February 27, 2014
Category Bloom, Menopause
Consequences of Sensual Expression

Dear Dr Ren, When I relocated from a city to the town where my sister lives, she gave me a gift certificate for a massage with Kelly, her regular RMT. Following that session, I mentioned intending to rebook another appointment. … Read More

December 13, 2013
Category Bloom, Getting Along
The Invisibility of Aging

AGE, SEX AND CULTURE: A CASE STUDY When I asked my new client what had prompted our visit, she responded simply, “I’m distressed.” “About something in particular?” I queried. “No, that’s part of the problem,” she lamented. And then she … Read More

November 27, 2013
Category Bloom, Menopause
Post-Menopausal Hibernation

WHERE HAS MY LIBIDO GONE? Dear Dr Ren, After making it through the hot flashes and mood swings of menopause a couple of years ago, I started to feel like my (old) self again. Sex actually improved and I felt … Read More

October 30, 2013
Category Getting It On
CONDOMS 101

As a clinician in private practice, I work hard to keep abreast of current research in sexuality. The following post, which I am reprinting in its entirety, came to me through one of my professional list servs and was penned … Read More

October 29, 2013
Delayed Ejaculation

Dear Dr Ren, After reading your column about PE (premature ejaculation), I thought you might be able to help me with the opposite problem. I can’t come with a partner! This used to mean that I just came last, but … Read More

October 27, 2013
Category Getting It On, Xtra
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