Low Self Confidence? Here’s Help

Do you suspect that if only you had more self-confidence, you’d be able to make your life work better? Chances are you’re right! The primary tools for effecting change are believing in 1) our ability to make it happen and … Read More

September 12, 2014
Disappointing Sex. What happened?

  Dear Dr Ren and Bloom, As a woman of a certain age, I learned to follow the rules. That included marrying a man I liked immensely, and burying my sexual attraction to women. My husband died three years ago, … Read More

April 30, 2014
First Time Lesbian Sex

Dear Dr Ren and Bloom, I’ve always dated men, and happily so. I like sex with men. But recently I watched some lesbian porn that really turned me on. I would like to find out what sex with another woman … Read More

April 30, 2014
Sex Changes with Aging

Dear Dr Ren/Bloom, I’ve been married over three decadues, and over those years my husband and I have developed a fulfilling sexual relationship. Ironically, now that we’ve gotten really good at this, age is throwing us some curves. My husband … Read More

February 27, 2014
Category Bloom, Menopause
Consequences of Sensual Expression

Dear Dr Ren, When I relocated from a city to the town where my sister lives, she gave me a gift certificate for a massage with Kelly, her regular RMT. Following that session, I mentioned intending to rebook another appointment. … Read More

December 13, 2013
Category Bloom, Getting Along
The Invisibility of Aging

AGE, SEX AND CULTURE: A CASE STUDY When I asked my new client what had prompted our visit, she responded simply, “I’m distressed.” “About something in particular?” I queried. “No, that’s part of the problem,” she lamented. And then she … Read More

November 27, 2013
Category Bloom, Menopause
Post-Menopausal Hibernation

WHERE HAS MY LIBIDO GONE? Dear Dr Ren, After making it through the hot flashes and mood swings of menopause a couple of years ago, I started to feel like my (old) self again. Sex actually improved and I felt … Read More

October 30, 2013
Category Getting It On

As a clinician in private practice, I work hard to keep abreast of current research in sexuality. The following post, which I am reprinting in its entirety, came to me through one of my professional list servs and was penned … Read More

October 29, 2013
Delayed Ejaculation

Dear Dr Ren, After reading your column about PE (premature ejaculation), I thought you might be able to help me with the opposite problem. I can’t come with a partner! This used to mean that I just came last, but … Read More

October 27, 2013
Category Getting It On, Xtra
How to Find a Bi-Curious Lover

All your life you’ve dated men, and now you find yourself curious about what sex with another woman would be like. How do you begin? Where do you go? Focus on what appeals to you What is it about sex … Read More

September 30, 2013
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