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Beyond Orgasm, Marty Klein

Beyond Orgasm: Respected sex educator and therapist Dr. Marty Klein outlines how our fear of sexuality, our obsession about orgasm, and our inability to be honest about what we really want from our sexual encounters has poisoned our ability to truly experience all that a sexual relationship has to offer.

by Dr. Marty Klein

The Ethical Slut, Easton and Liszt

The Ethical Slut: Those interested in exploring non-monogamy would be hard pressed to find more charming or knowledgeable guides than Easton and Liszt. They examine the intricacies of managing multiple relationships, including finding partners, scheduling dates, dealing with partner jealousy, managing conflict, and raising children. They manage to cover complicated and controversial ground with humor, integrity, and lots of personal revelations.

by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt

NewExhibitionism for the Shy: Show Off, Dress Up, and Talk Hot: Has your shyness held you back socially? Do your inhibitions keep you from being the sort of lover you long to be? Do you feel like you would just die if you tried to talk suggestively (never mind dirty!) in bed, but know your husband or boyfriend would love it? Do you hold yourself back from enjoying all sorts of things because...well, you're not sure why?

This is the book for you. Once you've figured out that you suffer from low self esteem or overactive repression or whatever it is that keeps you from enjoying yourself the way you wish you could, you want to know what to do to correct the situation. Dr. Carol Queen, trained sexologist and vamp extraordinaire provides practical answers with wit and compassion about how to face your fears, stare down your shyness, and emerge in control of your expressions--without guilt, and with a great deal of fun!

Fearless Sex: A Babe's Guide To Overcoming Your Romantic Obsessions And Getting The Sex Life You Deserve: SmartSexTalk has featured the book How to be a Babe by Dr. Joy Davidson in the past. This link will take you to a place where you can order her new and improved edition of the same book, with more of the author's input and finely crafted writing. Worth a second read!

Five Minute Erotica Five Minute Erotica: More a fan of erotic poetry than prose, it was with some scepticism that I opened my volume of Five Minute Erotica, edited by Carol Queen. Yet one story, ‘Dear Marla’, still causes me to draw in my breath whenever I think of it. The book is sprinkled throughout with such gems. As with any collection of works by various authors, the writing is uneven, but there are far more hits than misses. One bonus is that each offering is short enough to read to your lover as a teaser—in fact most will fit within the time constraints of a voice mail message (very hot!). Another plus is that different authors bring fresh perspective and variety. Use this slim book to fuel your masturbation fantasies, fire up your lover, or simply to appreciate some fine erotic prose. It’s a winner.

How To Be A Babe: It was with great excitement that I first opened my copy of How to Be a Babe. I had read other works by Dr. Davidson and had found her knowledge impressive and her writing style reader-friendly. The format of the book pleased me as well—the sidebars were eye-catching thought-provokers and the type was large enough to avoid eyestrain. I found the concept appealing, especially the cover ‘byte’ that promotes overcoming romantic obsession and welcoming sex into my life. I was counting on Dr. Davidson to deliver another tome filled with sex-positive, accurate, and non-judgemental information.

by Dr. Joy Davidson

Kiss of Fire: (Excerpted from a review by Joseph Bean, Leather Archives & Museum, Chicago)

"The photography of Barbara Nitke easily rises to the level of fine art, bringing a kind of raw and real sexuality to a level that few other artists even attempt. There is nothing either salacious or illustrative in Nitke's work. Using the light and shadow of life as it actually looks (...) she makes portraits of moments and passions, peopled by those who lived the moments and the passions. She belongs in the ranks of the great art photographers such as Arthur Tress, George Dureau and Robert Mapplethorpe."

by Barbara Nitke

Opening Up: Tristan Taormino has just released a new book about polyamorous relationships, and it's a winner. Though I wouldn't go so far as to say this replaces The Ethical Slut, Ms Taormino addresses today's hip and savvy audience with practical answers to the most frequently asked questions about how to negotiate something other than sexually exclusive relationships. Highly recommended.

Photosex: Gather round, boys and girls. If you appreciate looking at beautiful images of real people being sexual, but are bored or offended by tawdry, sensationalistic attempts at titillation, Photo Sex is the book for you. Page after page of sensuous, riveting depictions of folks doing what comes naturally lead viewers into thoughtful introspection about sexual possibilities and expressions. Each image tells its own story, yet David Steinberg’s skillful editing hinges each to the next, compelling further examination not only of the prints but of our responses to them. Some of the photographs dance on the edge while others are moodily loving and sensual. Regardless your age, gender, size, orientation, or sexual proclivities, you will find something of yourself in these pages.

by David Steinberg

Sex for One, Betty Dodson

Sex for One: One love affair can last a lifetime: the one with yourself! So says Betty Dodson, the author of this friendly guide to masturbation. Dodson illustrates her enthusiastic and informative text with her own magnificent erotic charcoal drawings of vulvas, as well as individuals and couples masturbating. Her work celebrates the vital role masturbation plays as a means of sexual self-expression, an avenue for learning about sexual response and an erotic treat for couples who want to expand their sexual routine.

by Betty Dodson, Ph.D.

Sex with the Lights On : 200 Illuminating Sex Questions Answered: Ducky’s style is inviting, straightforward and engaging. She uses both clinical and street terms, explaining sexuality respectfully and casually. She stresses how individual we all are and encourages open and frequent communication to learn how to become good lovers. What a wonderful contrast to the customary climate of uneasiness regarding sex!
Survivor's Guide to Sex,  Staci Haines

The Survivor's Guide to Sex: Survivors of child sexual abuse can learn how to make room for pleasure. Haines, a sex educator and somatics practitioner, delivers thought-provoking recipes for sexual empowerment that encourage readers to dance with -- rather than run from -- the complexities of their libidos. Journey into graduate-level recovery and define pleasure zones in this guided tour through sex toys, boundary exercises, libido-friendly resources and body consciousness for you or your partner.

by Staci Haines

The Worst-Case Scenario Survival Handbook: Dating and Sex, Joshua Piven

The Worst-Case Scenario Survival Handbook: Dating and Sex: Whatever your own dating nightmares are, take it from the professionals, things can get worse. Here are dozens of scenarios covering every phase of the romantic--or not so romantic--turn of events. Learn how to remove stubborn articles of clothing, slip away from a blind date, and get rid of unsightly stains. Discover the secrets of dealing with a bad kisser and of surviving a meeting with your date's parents. Hands-on, step-by-step illustrated instructions help guide you through these and many more perils d'amor. Tasteful and useful, and with an appendix of great pickup lines, breakup lines, and all-purpose excuses, this is the book you need when you wake up next to someone whose name you can't remember.

by Joshua Piven

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