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Category "Getting It On"
Duty Sex
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Relationship
I recently attended a professional coaching seminar offered by Tracy Heyland. One of Tracy’s main points was that when our values are in conflict with our goals, we procrastinate. She illustrated how we can reframe our experiences to shape the … Read More
December 2, 2011
Category Getting It On
Madness in the Message
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Masturbation, Pornography
This column is in reaction to my viewing of the Canadian release of Love, Sex, and Eating the Bones. I was excited about seeing this production, billed as “A guy addicted to porn discovers that love is stronger than fantasy.” … Read More
December 2, 2011
Category Getting It On
How To “Do” a Threesome
Sex research tells us that the most prevalent sexual fantasy among heterosexual males is a threesome with two women. Fortunately, many women share this flight of the imagination. If you are lucky enough to find yourself in a position where … Read More
December 2, 2011
Category Getting It On
Tips on Maintaining Chemistry After the Honeymoon Period
I’ve always been fascinated with courtship, with how two people’s eyes meet across a crowded room and something magical happens. There is an instant recognition of our compelling attraction. When the desire is reciprocated, its magnetism draws us into close … Read More
December 2, 2011
Category Getting It On
From “Hello” to “Good Morning”
The subject of courtship is vast. We’re all interested in it, and few of us feel equipped to do it with grace. It’s exciting…and it’s scary. We know some things about the courtship process. It has a certain number of … Read More
December 2, 2011
Category Courtship& Dating, Getting It On
Disparate Desires
In thinking about the issues that routinely come up in my therapy with clients, I realized that there are a few recurring themes. Disparate desires – when the partners have different sexual appetites – is a common problem, and one … Read More
December 2, 2011
Category Getting It On
Mate Dates: Planning Your Pleasure
- Originally published on DrKoop.com Take two loving people with demanding jobs and divide them into a typical month filled with obligations, expectations, family, and friends, and you often find a couple who rarely find themselves in a relaxed and … Read More
December 2, 2011
Category Getting It On
Rekindling the Fire
- Originally published on DrKoop.com Some of us are smart and lucky enough to have coupled with partners with whom we live comfortably. Seldom do we argue about who does which chore. Our interests coincide or coexist amicably. We agree … Read More
December 2, 2011
Category Getting It On
Puckering Up
-Originally published on DrKoop.com Valentine’s Day brings thoughts of love and romance….and kissing. What better portrays love’s qualities than a kiss? We kiss to greet and to part, to comfort children and pets, to bestow kindness and gratitude, and to … Read More
December 2, 2011
Category Getting It On
